It’s crazy to me that people just bounce out of a marriage/serious long term relationship when they find out their partner is sick like??? You’re not even going to hang out for a little while at least while they get through the first stage? Like, I’m sorry that they’re physically and/or mentally ill and in some cases die but you’re really going to abandon them after months/years of love in what’s probably the hardest time in their life?
What’s even worse is when people blame the person for their disease. Like ‘i left because their ALS was pushing our sex life out of existence.’ WHAT?? They didn’t pick it, i assure you.